Hi ladies, I’ve lost my sex drive I want to say about 5 years ago. I’m 28, I used to get aroused more easily, and found myself thinking about sex now and then. And then some sort of switch happened, and I just stopped thinking about it, or wanting it. It’s sad because I’m now married, and my man deserves more sex, I feel bad about it, but the desire just isn’t there. It’s so hard to work myself up to it. I’ve asked my doctor about what it could be, and they went into the whole spiel about “are you feeling safe in relationship” blah blah, all that unhelpful crap that has nothing to do with it. They had no answers for me. It’s clearly some kind of hormonal shift.

Has anyone experienced this? And what did you do to help it? Did it ever return?

Update: it’s not an attraction thing, I used to have more sex drive with the same partner. Also, if it was a partner thing than I would be thinking about sex in general outside of my partner if the libido was there, but I don’t. There’s just no interest.

Did get the thyroid labs checked once, they were within normal limits. I didn’t do any deep dive further to check a full thyroid panel.