Innappropriate Pregnancy Comments

Sue

Hi Ladies, For those that have gotten through multiple pregnancies with losses how did you keep getting through the covering it up part? I have a few friends who know that we have had multiple losses (5 so far), are aware it's a very sensitive subject and still ask if I am pregnant or make ridiculous comments in front of others like such as "you are not drinking (or I'm not sure if there is alcohol in there) are you pregnant?" It infuriates me so much on so many levels. I want to say something but am currently very early pregnant so my only option is to blow them off or lie to a group. It makes me so uncomfortable and want to hide from the world, but I am so sick of doing that everytime we get pregnant. How do you emotionally get through people being so insensitive and keep your cool when TTC post MC?