So I’ve read a lot of the previous discussions and tips on how to transition from vibratos aided orgasms to just by hand. I haven’t gotten off from oral or fingering of the clit. The only time I have is with the assistance of a vibrator. I read that I can slowly ween myself off of it and train myself to react to my hand by slowly switching from vibrator to hand farther and farther away from orgasm until you just don’t need it anymore. I saw in the previous posts though that some of you say that just laying off the masturbation for a few weeks works too. I find that in some places when I’m touching myself I get 0 feedback but in others its intense. It’s hard to reach climax because I feel like there isn’t just one spot that I can zoom in on and rub its constantly changing. Any tips regarding any of this?

~just another woman who is baffled by her own body