16 &’ Think I’m Pregnant? Am I? How To Tell My Mom?

Question

I Had Sex For The First Time 2 Or 3 Weeks Ago! I Am Terrified

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I was 14. I remember taking the test and feeling scared, happy, scared, and numb. I knew I had to tell someone so I told my boyfriend. He had this super adult reaction, said, “ Welp, I’m getting a job, you’re moving back to California with my family, we’re getting married, and having this baby.” 
I walked into my moms room. Asked her not to tell my dad what I was going to tell her. She promised. She was laying in her bed and I literally threw the pregnancy test onto her stomach. 🙄 she picked it up and adjusted it like she didn’t know what she was looking at. So she grabbed her glasses, turned the test again and started screaming at me. I ran away crying. My boyfriend was already on the phone with his family. They were excited. And couldn’t wait for us to move back with them. 
They next few days were horrid. My parents kicked my 17 year old boyfriend out of their house. (He was visiting for summer) Thinking back, I was 14 and they allowed my 17 year old
Boyfriend to sleep with me in the same bed 🤦🏽‍♀️ wtf did they expect?? Anyways, he was sleeping in the fields, with no money, finally a few days later my sister calls and said she bought him a plane ticket home. Relief but I didn’t hear from him for a few more days. 
My parents were forcing abortion. I went to have the procedure done but backed out only because the nurses and doctor showed me my ultrasound and told me I was murdering my child. I was 8 weeks and “This spot right here is your babies heart, do you really want to go to hell and kill this child?” 😭 “Can I stop please?” 
My son is almost 15 now. I’m not with his father anymore. We actually have 3 kids together total. We just grew apart.. I’ve managed to graduate high school, almost done with 4 different college degrees and Registered Nursing. 
My best advice is to tell your mom when the energy is calm. People may say to tell her when she’s happy or in a good mood. That shift in energy and her mood can really set her off or make her act out of the mood shift. Tell her when you’re both calm. Don’t try to go do something fun together, don’t make her breakfast first, just tell her after a normal day. A days you’re both at ease. Your panic will make her panic. Your sadness will make her even sadder. 
She’s not going to jump for joy. Expect her to be mad, hurt, confused, and worried. Expect her to say things you don’t want to hear. 
Most of all remember this is your life, the life she was given to guide and teach, she’s going to feel like she’s failed as a mother. Just stay strong, be positive in energy, have a plan but no expectations when you tell her.

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There’s no specific type of way to tell your mom. I’m 18, so I’m a teen too. Your just going to have to sit her down and tell her. If she’s mad, I would hope eventually she would get over it to be there for you. If your mom is abusive I would tell someone else. And get some help.

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Confirm with more tests and a digital. After that, if you’re pregnant,  you straight up just need to tell your mom.

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Take a couple more tests and go to your doctor before you tell her anything!!

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looks like an evap line to me trst again usung pink dye test

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I can see why you’d be scared. I would say take a few more before you tell her, just to confirm. 
If you need to talk, feel free to message me.

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Honestly take a first response test with pink dye. They are more accurate. And if that’s positive than you need to just tell your mom and make a doctors appointment. Good luck! Expect that she will be upset though but hopefully she will be a good support system for you.

16 &’ Think I’m Pregnant? Am I? How To Tell My Mom?

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