How long do guys stay mad?
I’ve been hooking up/talking to a guy for a few months. Any day we have off we hang out, but not just for sex. He’s introduced me to his friends. Last night we had a few drinks and ended up having sex in his car. He ended up finishing in me which is only the second time. Right after, he told me he needs to stop doing that because he’s getting too comfortable and the only way to do that was to not have sex. The only thing tho was that he was laughing saying it. So I started laughing and he was telling me he’s serious. So I was like “wtf” and straight up asked him if he didn’t want to hang out anymore. He told me “those words never came out of my mouth” and I just got upset and said they practically did. I told him he just wanted me for sex and that was it. But he told me if that was the case he’d have sex with me once and dip. It was already 4 am and he had to get up early the next day so he was pushing for me to go, which I took badly bc I was confused and wanted to talk it out. As I was leaving I could tell he got more upset. I felt bad so I texted him this morning saying I was sorry and I’m not like that. He never responded. I ended up calling him bc I left something in his car and he picked up but sounded so upset. I ended up saying I’m sorry over the phone and he said “whatever it doesn’t matter”. He kinda invited me out tonight so I asked if I’m meeting him up later and he said he just wants to hang out with his friends tonight. As we were hanging up he said “I’ll see you later/soon”. He definitely didn’t want to talk. I know he works the rest of the week and I know I’m not texting him again today. I want to wait 3 days to see if he texts back. If not, I’ll text him asking if we can hang and talk but I’m just SO nervous he’ll ignore me again. I know he cares a little but he even told me he puts up a wall for ppl because he’s been hurt before. Idk how to go about this. He’s usually always the first to watch my snap stories too and he hasn’t yet. This has never happened to us and idk how he is when he’s mad. Idk how to go about this and I’m just overthinking too much. When that happens I just wanna sleep all day and not eat. any help is appreciated!!!
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