Husband Cheated With My Best Friendš (UPDATE)
So you ladies get the full story Iām going to give you all some background information. My best friend and I have known each other for over 18 years. At this point she was more like the sister I never had. I will admit over the years Iāve noticed a small bit of jealousy on her part but other then that we always always got along. Sheās been there for me through every loss, heart break, break ups. She was the very last person on this earth I would have thought would do this to me. As for my husband. We met in college. Dated for 3 years, married for 9 and have 2 beautiful kids. Heās always treated me well. I always felt like a priority. Heād buy me flowers, surprise me with take out food at work, give me a massage. This past year I began seeing things change with him. He started working more and staying out late. Sex went from being very consistent to nonexistent. I tried to communicate with him but he always brushed it off. Made it seem like I was crazy and that nothing had been different. I even asked him if there was someone else and he looked straight into my eyes and said no. During this time I tried explaining what was going on in my marriage to my best friend. I thought sheād give me advice or have an opinion on it but she brushed off everything I said and changed the subject. A little time went by and both my husband and best friend were talking to me less. I started putting things together and just couldnāt believe that it was just a coincidence. My husband and best friend saw each other often because she always came over to watch shows or babysit for us. Thinking back all the signs were there. I always caught my husband staring at her out of the corner of his eye, she always laughed a little too hard at his jokes and their hugs goodbye always lasted too long. On a Friday morning I left for work while my husband had the day off. On my lunch I decided Iād go pick up some food and take it home to eat with him. When I get to my house my best friends car is in my driveway. My heart sunk. Before I even walked in I already knew what was going on. I parked the car and with tears already in my eyes I went into my house. I could already hear moans coming from upstairs and I thought I was going to pass out. When I got to the top of the stairs I went into my bedroom and there they were. Both completely naked him on top of her. My husband was fucking my best friend. I started balling my eyes out and ran as fast as I could to my car and drove away. I got both my kids from school and right now Iām currently staying at my parents house. I plan on never speaking to my ābest friendā ever again and as for my husband I refuse to answer his calls. He continues to text me asking me not to leave him. Donāt worry ladies I am. Me and my children deserve better. Pray for me.ā¤ļø
UPDATE:
Thank you ladies so much for your kind comments! After everything that has happened Iām actually doing great. My almost ex husband moved out of my house and now Iām happily living there alone with my kids. My ex best friend has tried to contact me a million times and even showed up to my house. When she rang the door bell I opened it and through milk on her. Iāll admit it was stupid but at the time i couldnāt resist. On the plus side of all this I must say Iām enjoying my single life already. Ever since people found out my husband and I are divorcing Iāve had a few men take an interest in me. I know this is definitely too soon but I have a coffee date this weekend! Iāve lost a few pounds due to stress but Iām feeling amazing and bought some new outfits! THANK YOU GIRLSā¤ļøā¤ļø
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