Husband Cheated With My Best FriendšŸ˜­ (UPDATE)

So you ladies get the full story Iā€™m going to give you all some background information. My best friend and I have known each other for over 18 years. At this point she was more like the sister I never had. I will admit over the years Iā€™ve noticed a small bit of jealousy on her part but other then that we always always got along. Sheā€™s been there for me through every loss, heart break, break ups. She was the very last person on this earth I would have thought would do this to me. As for my husband. We met in college. Dated for 3 years, married for 9 and have 2 beautiful kids. Heā€™s always treated me well. I always felt like a priority. Heā€™d buy me flowers, surprise me with take out food at work, give me a massage. This past year I began seeing things change with him. He started working more and staying out late. Sex went from being very consistent to nonexistent. I tried to communicate with him but he always brushed it off. Made it seem like I was crazy and that nothing had been different. I even asked him if there was someone else and he looked straight into my eyes and said no. During this time I tried explaining what was going on in my marriage to my best friend. I thought sheā€™d give me advice or have an opinion on it but she brushed off everything I said and changed the subject. A little time went by and both my husband and best friend were talking to me less. I started putting things together and just couldnā€™t believe that it was just a coincidence. My husband and best friend saw each other often because she always came over to watch shows or babysit for us. Thinking back all the signs were there. I always caught my husband staring at her out of the corner of his eye, she always laughed a little too hard at his jokes and their hugs goodbye always lasted too long. On a Friday morning I left for work while my husband had the day off. On my lunch I decided Iā€™d go pick up some food and take it home to eat with him. When I get to my house my best friends car is in my driveway. My heart sunk. Before I even walked in I already knew what was going on. I parked the car and with tears already in my eyes I went into my house. I could already hear moans coming from upstairs and I thought I was going to pass out. When I got to the top of the stairs I went into my bedroom and there they were. Both completely naked him on top of her. My husband was fucking my best friend. I started balling my eyes out and ran as fast as I could to my car and drove away. I got both my kids from school and right now Iā€™m currently staying at my parents house. I plan on never speaking to my ā€œbest friendā€ ever again and as for my husband I refuse to answer his calls. He continues to text me asking me not to leave him. Donā€™t worry ladies I am. Me and my children deserve better. Pray for me.ā¤ļø

UPDATE:

Thank you ladies so much for your kind comments! After everything that has happened Iā€™m actually doing great. My almost ex husband moved out of my house and now Iā€™m happily living there alone with my kids. My ex best friend has tried to contact me a million times and even showed up to my house. When she rang the door bell I opened it and through milk on her. Iā€™ll admit it was stupid but at the time i couldnā€™t resist. On the plus side of all this I must say Iā€™m enjoying my single life already. Ever since people found out my husband and I are divorcing Iā€™ve had a few men take an interest in me. I know this is definitely too soon but I have a coffee date this weekend! Iā€™ve lost a few pounds due to stress but Iā€™m feeling amazing and bought some new outfits! THANK YOU GIRLSā¤ļøā¤ļø