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Not due to the same situation but I feel like sex has become a “chore” to me as well. Probably because I’m ready to just give up and not have sex anymore. I’ve even gone as far as to tell my husband that I’m celibate from here on out. I never want to be touched and when he tries I always say “what’s the point, nothing is going to come of it”. When I do give in I don’t enjoy it. I enjoy it for him if that makes sense, because I don’t want to hurt him or make him feel as though it’s his fault when it absolutely isn’t.
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Is this anyone elses life right now? We are TTC and usually sex is really fun even though its planned when we have to do it. Today my SO pissed me off so I was not in the mood at all. However, it's supposed to be peak ovulation day so I didnt want to miss... literally it was the most not fun sex we've ever had. I was hoping we wouldnt get to the point where we had sex even though it felt like a chore and it happened tonight. I'm so frustrated but seriously hope a baby comes out of it... just curious if anyone else has done this?
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I think everyone has honestly. Is what your mad about right now worth possibly not making a baby this month? Think long term. If it was over something stupid (on his part) then don’t let it take away from the long term. If it was over something serious then I’d say talk it out or not do it 🤷🏻♀️ depends but not every partner wants sex the same amount every time (mean you may be giving 100%, but he may be at 20%. And vice versa)
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By wants I meant like enthusiasm not consent. Obviously consent should be there on both sides. Just clarifying.
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