Of course we are all struggling or we wouldn't be in the "assistanted fertility " post. My question to you is how do you over come people becoming pregnant all around you? For example younger girl at my work mid 20s her bf knocked her up for the 2nd time this year (miscarried after 6 weeks and the whole world new). Then becomes pregnant and the girl wont stop talking or making comments about it. And here I am with a man I've been with for almost 8yrs married almost 2 and we are struggling. But she gets her bf of a year and a half to get her pregnant twice. I have been so bitter and I hate it. Part of me feels I'll never get pregnant if I have such ugly feelings about others inside. I bring this up cause tomorrow I am going to have to listen about the sex of her baby (found out this weekend) and then going to have to listen to baby names and how she really wants or wanted a girl. When I'd be happy just to be pregnant. Its very frustrating. Im sure others can relate. What is your best advice cause its killing me.