I dont really get along with my mil and like 3 people from my family dont really care for her either! So I have been stressing out about how it will be when I have the baby. I know that everyone will be able to act accordingly, but my mil has a mouth on her so I just want to do what I can to avoid having any problems. When I had my daughter I was so overwhelmed and tired that I wanted everyone to leave shortly after they all got to see her & who knows how it will be this time. (& his family didnt come when my first was born, so this wasnt a issue). I just dont know if I should have our family visit at separate times or just however. My family is coming from out of town so they may not even be there the first day or two, im not sure. I just dont want either side to feel like we’re being unfair. How do you all do things?