So yeah, he didnt wanna eat me out because when he started fingering me, he felt the ring. I explained to him that its birth control and he was like “i aint never heard of some shit like that before...” so he said that he didn’t want to eat me out. I explained that I could go to the bathroom, take the ring out and wash my vagina quickly with a washcloth so it wouldn’t disturb him...he said no. So then we had sex, and after we had sex, he left. I could tell he was a little grossed out and disappointed and i felt bad. Maybe I should’ve told him I was on the ring before he started fingering me and getting ready to eat me out. I feel bad.

I know that you can take it out during intercourse as long as you put it before 2 days pass, so Im now realizing i should have done that. Does the nuvaring give a bad smell? Does it feel weird for the guy? What should I have done?