As an update to my last post, my husband and I decided to give us a second chance. We are both going to be putting a lot of work in this relationship because throwing it away without a fight would be a waste!

I received a lot of hate on here, posted multiple times and had to delete my entire post due to the negative comments that other women gave to me, directly attacking me....not even knowing me and all the issues I was dealing with.

So to anyone else in my shoes, in a tough spot with their relationship or life in general... If you are looking for help and people online are just attacking you don't stop looking for help. Keep posting until someone helpful comes along who will provide you some ideas or just comforting words without judgment. The internet is an ugly place, but like me some people have zero friends.. So we come here for comfort.

Please BE NICE! Too much hate in the world. Plus you never know what the person might be going through....

Feel free to reach out or post below if you need advice or just someone to talk to without judgment!

Edited to specify... Keep posting more questions and different perspectives, which is what I did. I posted new updates and new issues... All within my same big issue, each time I got attacked. What I mean is don't let don't people stop you from posting FUTURE NEW POSTS LOOKING FOR HELP. Keep looking for help for as long ad needed, good people are out there!