So my husband and I got pregnant a few months back, we ended up losing the pregnancy. And since then we've started trying again.

It blows my mind though that the first time I got pregnant we weren't even trying, it literally just happened like the second month after we decided to start having unprotected sex. Now that we have actually been trying and I've been tracking everything and we do the deed in the right days, we can't get pregnant! I mean we've only been trying for about 4 months but it's so frustrating! Now that we're actually trying its not happening but happened so easily the first time without trying. I don't get it!!

Anyone else seem to have this problem?? And please don't tell me to just relax, it'll happen when it happens. I'm so sick of hearing that from people. I understand it will happen when it happens but holy cow, it's is incredibly frustrating getting those negatives every month 😔