My boyfriend picks me up from work everyday. On Saturday evenings when I have to work evening shifts he picks me up from work but not always to take me home. His sister hates my guts for some reason, one time I was at his house, and she came in and started calling me a bitch and was saying how I was using her brother. I couldn't take it, so I asked him to take me home. That was the 1st time I actually met her and she didn't know me. After that, if we wanted to spend time together, he'd come at my place, to avoid confrontations with her..

(Ok back to where I was getting at)..

On Saturdays when I get the evening shift, I get off work at 7:30 pm but I leave at 7:00 pm. I work in the outskirts of town, he'd be outside waiting to take me home or take me somewhere to take a bus home. He has to pick up his mom, since she sleeps over at their place on weekends.

(He lives with his 2 siblings, a younger sister, (that rude sister) and an older brother.

His mom is really nice, I like her, she's always been nice to me. If he just has to pick his mother up on Saturday evening, he'd take me home. I don't live too far from him... But sometimes his sister wants a ride home with him, so that's when he picks me up from work and take me to the bus terminal to get a bus before he goes to pick them up.

He'd take me there and leave to get his mom and sister. He'd take them home and leave me in a crowded terminal to wait for a bus for hours and I'd usually get home near midnight.

We live in the country and our bus service sucks, most of the time some people don't get a bus to their destination for 2-4 hours and since my route is the country, it's pretty bad.

When he takes them home, he'd message or call me and ask if I got a bus yet, and most of the time it's a No, I'd still be stranded in there. So then he'd come back for me..

(Which makes no damn sense, and would just have him waste diesel. I mean you left me here to come back, just because you don't want me in your vehicle because your sister is in it???)

Anyway, that's how it's been for a few Saturday evenings. I just did it because at the end of the day, that's his sister and I'm his girlfriend yeah but blood is thicker than water.. At least that's how I saw it.

(Although my brother would leave me high and dry to pick up his girlfriend, he'd put her before me😂😂😂 the opposite to my boyfriend, how ironic.)

Anyway when my boyfriend would come back to pick me up, he'd feel bad about it. I'd see it on his face or the way he'd talk to me. I'd notice how bad he'd feel for leaving me behind. I felt bad/unwanted/insignificant when he left me behind and I guess he could see that to😔

I just bared with it, because I didn't want to make a scene about it, plus, it's his vehicle and I can't tell him how to use it.

... And then later down the road I got pregnant..

Still in my 1st trimester. I feel sick everyday and I can hardly eat, plus not to mention the exhaustion I feel, especially after work.

Anyway things were going great between us, until the 1st Saturday back to work where I got the dreaded evening shift.

He came to pick me up, before I finished work he messaged me with a sad face and said he's coming to take me to the terminal. I knew it meant I had to go there to wait for a bus. I just wanted to tell him not to bother, I was just gonna walk there and save him the trouble, since the terminal is like 10-15 mins away from where I work, but a lot of muggings and injuries happen on that road at night, so I just said 'Ok' when he said he had to take me to the terminal 😔

I felt so sick, I had a headache, plus my feet were killing me.. Can't forget the exhaustion either.

I was upset that I had to go and wait for a bus, I was in the terminal waiting for a bus for like an hour, standing all the way, because it's usually crowded with other persons waiting for buses. My poor feet were killing me and I felt horrible.

My bus finally came, then I had to deal with all the pushing people trying to get in to get a seat. I finally got in but I had to stand because all the seats were taken and i was squeezed and sandwiched by the other passengers.

My phone started vibrating, I know it was my boyfriend calling to see if I got a bus as yet. He and his family were home, while I was there in that situation. He could have just taken me home to, we were all going in the same direction and my house was on the way. But just because he had to take home his sister that hates me, he abandoned me again.

I was so mad that I ignored his call, then he called again about 10 mins later and I ignored that to... I was so mad he left me again, carrying his child, feeling like hot shit on pavement.

I ignored him when I finally got home as well. I didn't even eat, I just wanted to shower and get to my bed to sleep because I had the morning shift the next day and I would have to wake up pretty early for work.

The next day after work he wasn't there to pick me up, he didn't msg me or anything, I hadn't talked to him or seen him since he left me again to get the bus 2 days ago.

I guess I know now how much I really mean to him now😔

If he could do that to me while I'm pregnant.. I could only imagine what it'd be like when my kid is born.

**UPDATE**

My boyfriend apologized and said he was sorry and it was his fault and it will never happen again. That's his family and I definitely don't want to come between that. I get along well with his mom and his brother seems ok but she is the problem. He does it because he doesn't want any problems or any fights or arguing with me or his sister. I wouldn't start anything of course, but I think he believes she will. There were times he picked me up and then saw her walking and he'd pick her up and she'd get in and no words would be spoken, he would only tell me that she'd talk about me when I got out (something nasty of course) but he'd never tell me what she'd say.. So she'd only talk about me behind my back (like I care) anyway, when I have to work evening shifts on Saturdays I'll just go and get the bus, at whatever time it comes, I'll get home. I don't want to make him uncomfortable, or seem like he has to make some ultimate ultimatum. That's life.