So it’s come to my attention that a lot of people are upset about their partner self pleasuring. This honestly baffled me and I wanted to see how widespread it is and if I’m really in a huge minority that is like WHY WOULD I BE JEALOUS OF HIS HAND?? Like maybe there’s something wrong with me but I think it’s perfectly fine for my hubby to masturbate and he is fine with me doing the same. We will even sometimes use it to talk dirty to each other like “I thought about X hot moment with you and couldn’t help myself” sort of thing. Anyway, just curious about how others think. Like I just don’t get why it’s hurtful to other people (and apparently not just women, but some men are upset too by female partners self-pleasuring I guess). Anyone care to share?