So my boyfriend watches porn when we don’t have sex. It’s whatever, I DONT mind.

BUT he’s offered to be more mindful of it and close out the tabs on his phone. Which I said is nice. I understand people are human and forget.

But now he’s trying to find a loop hole because I KNOW that when we argue and make up he’s gonna “show me something on his phone” and “accidentally” leave tabs open so that I can see it.

And the only reason it would hurt my feelings is because his attempt to be mindful is half assed, so why even offer in the first place? It takes not even a second to close out a tab.

Is it just me or is accepting that half asses offer/attempt a slap in the face?

There is no try, only do.