My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now and he’s the loml & things have been great for us 💕 however the females in his life are toxic to our relationship.

He’s had a close female friend for a long time before I came into the picture and she’s always given me weird vibes. We’d all hang together as a group and she was cool but I couldn’t help but be wary. I didn’t wanna be the girlfriend to tell him who he can and can’t hang with so I just kept an eye on her, I always got the feeling she secretly liked him. But once she got a boyfriend of her own I felt better about him hanging with her. However one night when they were drinking at her place she tried to force herself onto him. And we all know the truth comes out when we’re drunk, he told me that she said she felt she’s entitled to be with him and that she wanted to cheat on her bf with him. I received a snap from my boyfriend’s phone the next morning of him sleeping in her guest bed with the caption “your man crush Monday in my bed again”. Who does that? I called my bf on the spot and he explained nothing happened between them and that he was too drunk to drive home so he crashed in her guest bed (he’s slept over there before) and she must’ve used his phone in his sleep. I trust my dude, but not her so I told him to cut her off.

His ex who cheated on him and broke up with him in the past is jealous of me and has an“ if i can’t have him no one will mentality”, apparently she’s been trying to get him back ever since we started dating and has been texting him that he should break up with me. In the past she was the person he’d confide in and get advice from. But that’s my job now so I told my bf to block her and cut her off and because of that she’s got an issue with me. At parties we sometimes run into her and she always comes up to him and tries to make small talk and makes smart comments about me as if I’m not there. My bf always gives me the look of not to say anything because I know it’ll result in a fight, and that’s exactly what she wants. At our last run in she mentioned the snap of my boyfriend which baffled me because no one but him and his female friend knows about that, and my bf informed me that the two girls didnt like each other in the past but if she knows of that night itd only make sense that the two girls are hanging out together now. I feel they’re conspiring against me, my bf told me the two girls are very petty and manipulative so he wouldn’t be surprised. The ex knows very little about me and has only seen me twice in the dark, but I’m typically very private so she’s been digging trying to find my social media for a few months. Her and her sister have tried following me on snap and my private ig account. I recently just made a public art page @poptart_dreams 😋 which she has also tried following. I always block them, I hadn’t noticed that my art page has my phone number under the contact tab. An anonymous number texted my bf saying that your girlfriend shouldn’t have her number on her Instagram, and I’m pretty sure its her. And I’m afraid if she has access to it she’ll start to harass me personally.

I’m so tired of all these girls from my boyfriend’s past trying to ruin our relationship. I’m trying my best to be the bigger person and ignore them, but it’s getting exhausting.

Any suggestions on what I should do moving forward?