Hey ladies. So I have a few questions without judgement please

I was having sex with my ex, we have been on and off for about 2 months. Anyways after when we broke up I got on birth control and I neglected to tell him. So it’s still my dirty little secret. A reason behind that is because we wants to have a baby girl so bad. But I’m at a good place. I’m about to finish my last year in college and start a new life in Colorado after school is out. I also have already two kids from two different dads. So you can understand why I don’t want a third especially with us being on and off. He also have kids, 4 kids one of them is near my age, his oldest is 20.

I can also understand why he wants another child for many reasons one of them being he is getting older. We have a big age difference gap by 13 years. He is divorced (as of I as well). And because he has all four boys I can understand why he would want to try for a girl.

Unfortunately, again I feel like I’m not ready and I’m very content with my life and how it’s going now. A week before we had sex he told me he wanted to get back together after having sex. He doesn’t like to use Condoms which is another reason why I decided to get on birth control.

He told me that night that he didn’t pull out because he’s not getting any older and he really loves me and wants to try for a baby. And to make it all worse he was so confident that this “was it”

Which brings me to question number one...

Should I tell him on birth control?

I feel slightly guilty that I didn’t only because I know how much he wants to have another and is always talking to

Me about wanting another but since our relationship is rocky and we are on off I just thought it was best.

I also have to confess that past the two days after having sex with him that I’ve been on antibiotics for a bladder infection and also took two of my pills late.

Which brings me to questions 2,3 & 4

Can I still get pregnant?

Should I take/buy a pregnancy text?

AND

What should I do if I am pregnant!?

I also am having stomach pain still so I don’t know if I’m pregnant or if it’s my bladder and the medication I’m taking for the bladder infection.