My boyfriend and I have been dating for awhile and we started talking about having children. He said that he didn’t care and that it was the woman’s decision to have children. I told him that he would be in the baby’s life too & it isn’t a decision to be made lightly because I wouldn’t want him to resent me for making either choice. He only says that if we have children he doesn’t want more than 3 or 4. Which is a reasonable max amount for me. I’d prefer no more than 3.

Not looking to have children soon, but it’s something I wanted to vent about.

Does anyone else have a significant other that has the same mindset as my boyfriend?

We’re looking at moving in together when his lease is up next April and going from there (when it comes to getting married) to see if we can handle living with each other (lol).