I think I’m out

Kay

I’m officially 13dpo (according to glow) my cycles were 45 days until last month they went to 30, and I’m not tracking with opk so I’m not 100% sure. However I took a clear blue digital yesterday morning and it was negative. I’ve been having loads of discharge, feels like I started af type amount, extremely bloated, sore boobs, had flu like symptoms last two days, nausea started yesterday, certain smells making me actually puke. Very similar to my first pregnancy. I feel like I’m out but I’m praying I’m not. We’ve been trying 9months now. Should I keep testing or just wait, has anyone gotten a bfp after a negative at 12dpo?