I really love the guy I am with right now . And he is almost always positive about everything and in a good mood, and I am at times negative but it’s because of my insecurities .. I feel like I am to hard on myself .. I get mad over the small things . Like nothing huge has ever happened but small things are why we fight . I don’t want to be negative all the time but I feel like I have mood swings and it’s not always negative we have our good times too . However we have fought almost 3 x already . The first one was awhile back in March when we almost broke up and it was because of me .. and my negativity .. I was crying and said that I’d change . Then another time almost in July we fought & then this Sunday on our anniversary . I was in a good mood but my old clothes wasn’t fitting anymore and I got upset and that mood went over to going out to the movies with him . He was in a good mood and I was negative . I love him and Idk what to do he loves me too but had told me that he needs to respect himself more that he always tries to be positive but when I’m mad or sad it changes his mood And I just don’t wanna lose him but at times I can’t control how I act ): Any advice or thoughts on the situation ?