me and my boyfriend just 1 month shy of 4 years broke up yesterday. he said he’s afraid of commitment, needs time alone, and that he felt like he was staying with me because it was what he was supposed to do not because he wanted to. we’ve been dating since i was 15 and i’m almost 19. i have no idea what to do to get over him because he felt like home and is basically all i’ve known out of a relationship. i love him so much, he was a perfect partner. please ladies leave any advice or suggestions for moving on from someone you were for sure you’d spend your life with 😭💔