According to my significant other, leaving the house for a walk, attend a support group, or to grocery shop is “gallivanting” and I do too much of it. He says I always find time to “do the shit I want to do” And it’s “so convenient” our daughter fell asleep on my lap right when he wanted me to cook him something. 🤦‍♀️ She has been awake 4 hours.

I don’t know what to say. I can’t get it right. The other day he commented that the amount I accomplish on a good day is the same as what I accomplish on a bad day, and that the house is always a mess.

I do the dishes, grocery shop, cook, clean the bathroom weekly, do laundry daily, vacuum every other day, dust weekly. I just can’t freaking win. I am over it. 😩