Hello you all who are trying to have a baby especially teenagers or underaged girls.

And I apologize it’s long and I’m not trying to offend anyone please know that...

Before you try or decide to have a baby let me tell that it’s a life changing experience. Baby requires attention 24/7. Baby had needs that needs to met. Baby needs to be fed, clothed, cleaned, showered and love. Some days will be crazy hectic and some days you’ll be proud of yourself for being a mother. You might never get any alone time unless someone trustworthy is willing to help you out with feeding, taking care of the baby, etc. diapers and formula cost fortune. Babies grow out of clothes within days sometimes a week lol. Some nights you won’t get to sleep at all. Any plan, trip, even your day won’t go as you have planned it’ll all depend on your baby. Babies get sick you’ll be the responsible one to take care of taking them to the doctor nurturing them, taking care of them. Even going to the bathroom by yourself and taking a shower will feel like you are going to Hawaii 😂. Sometimes you will have to pee while the baby is still with you in the bathroom. The phone, the sport, anything like that will be needed to put aside unless someone is willing to help you out. I’m not saying having a baby is bad or anything, but it is a life changing experience. I’m 30 I have a 15 months old and she is enough for me I quit my job to be with her while my husband works. Somedays I feel proud of myself for cooking, cleaning the house, and doing everything I have planned for the day and somedays I feel like a worse mom because my child didn’t like the food or she didn’t get to go outside to play, believe my I try to take her to the park or just play with her in the backyard daily.