Me and this boy have been on and off but mostly on for just over 6 months now. But since our first breakup he just isn’t the same, we broke up because he didn’t want a relationship at the moment (the same excuse as all boys make).

But recently we have been arguing a lot about how I act and what I do. For example the other day he tried to accuse me of smoking when I don’t smoke we also got into a massive argument about me asking his girl best friend if she liked him because someone said she did. And he also had a go at me because I FaceTime his friends.

But now he has said he doesn’t want to be together but to just ‘chatting’ which I don’t feel comfortable doing because he still wants to make out and do bits with me. This is the really fucked up part though, I asked him what is chatting because he was flirting with me and he said “ohhh it’s like friends with benefits but the nicer version”

All my friends have said to leave him because he’s just using me to try and have sex because he knows I like him a lot. But I just can’t bring myself to do it I like him too much to end it.