I’ve been a house wife (sort of unexpectedly) for the past 4 months. We decided to start trying for our first baby together 2mo ago (I have a 5yr Old from a previous relationship). Well I just got a job offer from my dream job and I accepted. I now want to stop trying for awhile so that I can get settled into my new job first but my husband insists we keep trying and that a new job shouldn’t hold us back. I’m thinking of just trying my best to not get pregnant for awhile and not telling him. I really don’t want to mess this new job up. 🙈