Why can't I have an orgasm?

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My boyfriend and I  just started having sex a few weeks ago, I'd say we've done it ten times now, and I can never orgasm. I can masterbate myself to orgasm quickly though. My bf feels really bad, I don't know what the problem is, I would say he is pretty good at it and never half asses anything. Are there any tips I could use so that I can have an orgasm? I don't want him to feel bad anymore, plus it would be nice if I could have one. Thanks so much

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Well there are different positions and things he would do. I had never even had an orgasm Before with any boyfriend other than my current one. I could do it myself but never before with a bf . Anyway. He got me really turned on by foreplay. And then we were having sex in an interesting position. We were laying on our sides (right side) on the bed and he was behind. More like a 90deg thing. (Reverse cowgirl laying down) anyway, he went at it. And went to town. He went fast and fast and you can feel it building and I knew I had to do it and he said don't. Then I said I had to again and he said don't. Anyway. I did my best to hold it in as he said 5 times.  Then he said okay go. And it was the best thing ever. -> maybe try that? Lol. Just personal experience

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Its not tough just do it with his finger after he get out, put vibrator on clit.

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A man has never made me orgasm, I found out that some woman can't during sex, which sucks. 
Got to make it happen other ways 😭

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I'm not sure if you've ever done this or want to but I had the SAME exact problem, sex always felt so good for me but I never orgasmed and I thought it was the strangest thing, but my boyfriend ate me out for the first couple of times and he kind of had to learn how I liked it but eventually he did and that made me orgasm, some girls just can't orgasm during sex so if you're comfortable with it, I'd try that!

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I don't have that problem but a similar one. My boyfriend never goes halfass when it comes to sex but his stamina isn't the best so when he finishes normally I haven't yet. What we do is after sex he normally fingers me or eats me out or teases me in some way. This makes me orgasm but I'll also learned that when he does what I really like I orgasm during sex. I liked my hair pulled and spank me and stuff like that and when he does that to me I get really aroused and it helps the process. He probably isn't arousing you enough so it's harder for you to have an orgasm by just he being inside you. I encourage you to try to have him finger you after he finishes or put a vibrator in there and then rub your clit.

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I have the same problem :(

Why can't I have an orgasm?

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