Ladies, I have myself a little situation lol my SO and I have been trying for a baby for just over two years. We just started seeking help and will hopefully be started treatments within the month🤞🏻

Here’s the situation..... I’m a bridesmaid in a friends wedding in September of 2020, SOOOO who knows if I will be VERY pregnant, LITTLE pregnant, or not pregnant at all BUT we’ve picked out our dresses and I don’t know whether to wait and order mine or order it now? It’s a dress they’ve had FOREVER (so they say) so they don’t see it discontinuing.

What do you ladies think?? I was only going to try for like 2 months and then stop for a couple months so that I could still obviously go to there wedding BUT since we’ve been trying for so long I kinda just want to give it my all until we fall pregnant. Is that selfish? UGHHH I NEED HELP 🤯😭