Okay ladies I realize this sounds pretty weird. I love really rough sex and always have. My husband prefers to make love and take it slow. He always makes sure I have what I need and then we will finish off the way he likes it. So my problem is everytime I try to slow down and take it easy when I'm on top I end up going wild. I'm trying so hard so be able to give him what he likes. I guess what I'm asking does anyone have any tips on how to get me to just slow down and really enjoy passionate sex