Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years. We live together and we’ve always kinda had a rocky relationship but either way we always work things out.

Now there is the money app on my phone that we both use called Venmo. You can add your phone contacts and Facebook contacts thru this app and send them money or they can send it to you. Well I got this account sometime last year when my boyfriend told me about it. I added him once I got the app so i have been “friends” with him for a while on here. Sometimes he would send me money and sometimes I would to him. Well I mostly got on it to send my Ex husband money to pay half of expenses for our son.

Well sometimes this app will sync contacts or you can add people manually. The other day or maybe a week or 2 ago I got on the app bc I had to change my debit card info since I got a new one and my old one was no longer useable. So I go on this app and noticed that I had a couple more friends added on and I wanted to know who it was. Well while I was looking I noticed that my boyfriend wasn’t on my friends list anymore. No big deal right? So I tried looking him up...nothing. Tried looking up someone I know he was friends with on there...nothing. So I just thought maybe he deleted the app all together since he didn’t use it much anyways.

Fast forward to today. My phone a few days ago got wet and completely blacked out my screen. I had to go buy a new phone and I forgot my Apple ID password so I had to do an account recovery and come to find out I have to wait 24 days to reset my password. Well I spoke to someone from Apple and they said I could make a new ID and once I could reset my old one then I can merge the 2 together. So when I made a new ID I had to completely start from scratch. And luckily I remembered some of my passwords to some apps I had downloaded. Well the Venmo app I didn’t remember and I had to make a whole new account. So I decided to look up my boyfriends account and sure enough I found it. He had a lot more friends than the last time I saw it and my old account was not on his friends list. I looked at my ex husbands account and my old account was on his so why isn’t it on my boyfriends?

So I think any person would be thinking that he blocked me. I asked him about it and he got very defensive. I noticed his ex girlfriend was on there (friends list) and asked him about that as well. He immediately told me to move out and he was tired of me starting shit with him all the time. I mean I wouldn’t have to say anything to him if I didn’t feel like he was being shady. Would you guys have brought it up to you SO if you know they blocked you on some app? I know it’s just a money app and that’s not the point. The point is he got so defensive, tells me I need to move out today, lies and says he didn’t block me or “doesn’t remember doing so”. I mean I don’t want to make a big deal over nothing. But he tells me he never gets on there but he has and I have proof he does. I honestly don’t even care if he does or doesn’t, but why block me on some dumb app bc what? Your Ex gf is on there? Why not just delete her? And no you cant have conversations with people on there like DM’s

To comment about this, I DONT CARE IF HE GETS ON THE APP ITSELF!! What I care about is that he blocked me on it which I thought was very silly and kinda stupid. If he thought it was going to stir up drama that his ex was on there then he could have just deleted her besides blocking me. This girl I have had issues with in the past. She married and she has texted my boyfriend sometimes late at night like 1:00am for example. Sorry but I think that’s a little inappropriate for someone to do that and they are married. Doesn’t matter if he’s “cool” with her or not.