Should we wait until the time is right or keep trying?

I had a miscarriage almost to 2 months ago at 6 weeks and 3 days. Once my normal cycle started back me and my bf have been trying to conceive again. But everytime I hear people say “it will happen when the time is right” it kinda makes me feel “selfish” for waiting to try again. My feelings are hard to explain when it comes down to the “it will happen when the time is right subject” especially since this is something we been wanting for months. Anybody else felt the same way or have similar thoughts?