So I’m currently 35 weeks and my hubby’s family is asking about coming to see us at the hospital when I give birth which is sweet but I really wasn’t planning on visitors after I give birth. 😕 I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings as they are all absolutely wonderful and kind but I’m not to sure I will want company.. I feel like it’s my time after all is said and done and I will be nursing and I just don’t feel comfortable with all the family coming around so soon after 😩 I come from a very small family and we really aren’t that close.. I mean we talk and all but my mom lives in another state and my brother is about an hour away and neither of them will be around until after a month or so of me having the baby. Now on the other hand hubby and his family are extremely close and kinda always available for one another.. let’s just say they are very involved with one another and I find it sweet to be honest but how do I tell them nicely that I don’t want any visitors at the hospital and I was kinda just hoping it would be me and hubby and the baby for the first few days 😕 also I have an older son who just turned 9 so he will also be around and when not with me he will be with hubby’s family so I just don’t want anyone with hurt feelings but I also want my privacy as my space after I have baby. Heaven knows ima be looking a mess as it is 😅🙄