Moving cities

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This might be long sorry lol

So I’m 23 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend just got a job in a city an hour away. We’ve been talking about it and moving there would be best. More things to do, better schools, more career opportunities, etc. But before that job happened we were going to move into this parents basement. Not ideal but alright. But I’m putting things together and it would just be so much easier just to move the the city his work is in. Living expenses are cheaper and all that. Rent there for a nice apartment is $200-$500 cheaper than here. There’s isn’t much this city has to offer. But he’s been saying it’s not worth the move and it’s pointless to move there. But it would benefit us so much! It’s like I’m talking to a wall he’s not understanding any points I say. Also his parents are going to be moving to Florida within the year and he’s wanting to go with them! I say hell no! Other than him I have absolutely no reason to move there. He’s wanting to stay with his parents as long as he can but I’m not wanting to. I’m a very independent person and I want my own place to call my house. Not living with either of our parents. It’s not what I want. Idk how I can explain to him more than moving would be our best option. 🥺 I’m just giving up with trying with him anymore he doesn’t want to hear anything I have to say about it.