Are you and your boyfriend long distance?

Question

My bf just told me he might be moving nine hours away... I feel absolutely nauseous every time I think ab the possibility... and the worst part is. I'm being selfish... he doesnt have the money for college and he was given a chance to be accepted to play football and get schooling on scholarship.. and I don't want him to go.. 
Sometimes I'm sooo freakin excited and happy for him bc this is the absolute perfect opportunity for him. But the other side of me that's thinking ab him being 9 hours away is hoping he doesnt get the scholarship because the only way he can go is if he gets it.. IM SUCH A TERRIBLE GIRLFRIEND FOR BEING THIS WAY. I feel so guilty ab it😭 
It's like my brain is fighting itself because this means no hugs, kisses, cuddles, random dates or just dates in general, no fall or christmas festivities. I'm just going to miss him insanely much.. I'm such a affectionate and borderline clingy girl😔 
And I cant even think ab the possibility of breaking up without crying bc he's my world😭😭

Answer

You’re going to have to understand that his life is just beginning. He was offered an amazing scholarship. Don’t stand in the way of his education and his future life. 
After high school, people move on. They grow and they learn about themselves. You’re going to have to learn how to do that. 
He is going to meet a lot of new people, a lot of interesting people at college, and it’s going to be an amazing experience for him. Don’t ruin it or make him feel guilty. 
It isn’t about you. It’s about him. Are you going to college? I suggest you branch out and meet new people. 
It’s going to be very hard to do an LDR, especially 9 hours away and in college. I personally think you need to let him go. Let him grow, let him learn and explore. This is his life, not yours. You may not like it. But you have to respect it. 
You are going to have to come to terms with him not being there. He is becoming an adult and transitioning into the adult world. You’re going to have to do the same. You’re going to have to take a step back and be honest with the realization that this will probably not last long. 
Don’t stand in his way.

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If he gets this chance don't stand in the way of it. If he does get it and goes, but you reluctantly agree to stay together after guilt-tripping him it will only make him resent you in the future. You should try and support him as much as you can and try to find as much time to be together that you can. Never stand in the way of a big opportunity for a person you love. It's going to suck, and it might not work out in the long run. But put yourself in his shoes. How would you feel if you had this huge opportunity in front of you. One that you wanted, and he tried to force you to stay behind and not pursue something that was important to you.

Are you and your boyfriend long distance?

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