best friend having sleepovers with my boyfriend ?

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ok so my friend became friends with my boyfriend when we started dating and they apparently are homies now cuz they started working together and one night my friend asked if she could spend the night at his place and he said sure. i’m not the type to say no to that bc we aren’t the type to control each other but that shit bothers me, i trust him and stuff but it pisses me off for some reason. shld i let it go or what i need help

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nope nope nope nope nope

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You're not even invited to a sleepover with your best friend and your own boyfriend. I'd say they probably don't want you there for a reason..

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Throw em both away

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Your best friend feels too comfortable around him. I don’t care how good of friends I am with a guy, I would NEVER sleep over his house especially with his girlfriend not there. She doesn’t have a boyfriend of her own she could stay with? Why weren’t you invited to come over and stay too? There’s just a lot of unanswered questions

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I think they're sleeping together....and call it a "friendship."

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This just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. No reason at all for your friend to be sleeping over with your bf unless you are there! There are boundaries & these two are pushing them to the limits...now that they know how far they can get, you should leave. Let those assholes have each other & you go find yourself a hot ass rebound!

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Uhm....they’re literally cheating on you right in front of your face.

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sis cancel that girl real quick

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For one it's not controlling to say this makes me uncomfortable and I'd prefer it if you not do it. For two I wouldn't be with my husband if he thought it was ok to have a sleep over with another girl let alone my best friend. For three this is exactly why my husband and I don't have the opposite sex as friends. We have friends that are couples that we are both good friends with and the occasional single friend that is the same gender as the person they befriend and can be friends with both of us. It's me and him against everything else. We're a team that loves and supports each other and you bet your ass I let him know if he did something he shouldn't have in our marriage just like he does. Every relationship has boundaries. 🤦‍♀️

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Tell both your friend and your bf to not do overnights as it annoys you and makes you uncomfortable. I honestly wouldn't feel comfortable in that situation too. I would hella scold my bf for even allowing a girl to sleep in his place.

best friend having sleepovers with my boyfriend ?

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