i never knew this was a problem until i saw this on twitter. this was a post about having kids young and some girl was talking about she didn’t wanna be 35 and changing diapers and making bottles (everyone is different) i kept reading the thread and i saw this. do people say party in your 20s and have kids later for this reason? ( not the only reason of course but part of it) my mom and aunt and all their friends are in their 40s and they still go out to have a good time. their kids are grown (expect my sister. she will be 16 tuesday) is 40 and up too old to go out? no matter how young or old you have your kids, when they are old enough to be home on their own, the parent(s) have a right to go out and enjoy themselves. i’m 21, pregnant, and a homebody, but when my child is old enough or don’t mind giving me a night off.. i will go out and enjoy myself.

i just want some women’s opinion on this.