Miscarage

I just wanted to share a small story and ask a question to all you woman out there. Today after being late for almost 2 weeks and having spotting, I started today and when I went to rest room I realised there was some sort of tissue looking stuff sorry TMI! I think I may have miscarried! I am so deeply sad If so because it was my first child I have been trying for 4 or more years and married 2! I tried to give my husband a baby before his father passed of pancreatic cancer last March because all he wanted was a grand child and I feel like when it finally happened the baby was gone:/ I was having strange dreams about being pregnant to but I have been so stressed and I think it took its tolls on me unfortunately.. I hope to keep trying for a miracle soon! My question to you ladies out there if you have unfortunately lost a baby early on 1-3 weeks etc was it tissue like? Balls of anything ? Strands like ligaments? It was so hard to tell but I know deep down it was a baby . Thank you !