So my boyfriend has apparently been using ASMR to go to sleep.

Cool.

What's not cool to me is pulling his body away, seeming as if he is trying to hide it and specifically looking for Asian girl amsr.

Should I be concerned?

Like it's one thing if its variety but no.

It's very specific and pulled away from me, I tried to face him (he thought I was sleeping, which he coming home from the gym woke me)

He pulled away even more as he was listening to that.

So what do I feel.. I feel betrayed and upset it's so specific.

Like I dont want to control him at all but I feel disrespected and feel as if it's a kink I cant help with