So two weeks ago I went out and met this guy we hit it off and danced together, since he knows my friend group.

But he lives 2 hours from me so we haven’t met since that night. This weekend I went to visit my friends that live in the same city as him and we were planning on going out to a concert. I knew he was gonna be there cause it’s a huge event and I was excited to see him again.

So on the ride over we’re just talking in the Uber and the conversation switches over to men and she mentions that had a crush on the same exact guy as me. And she was gonna hang out with him that night.

She rarely has crushes on guys and she plays it off as him not meaning anything but a stupid crush but I can tell she likes him. I knew how rare it is for her to find a guy she liked so I didn’t tell her that I liked him too.

But now I can’t help but feel like I’ve missed out on my shot, I don’t want to ruin our friendship over a guy but at the same time i really like him too. Should I let her know or just ignore it?