Wanna give a back story so you can get the entire gist.

Boyfriend just passed CFA level II and his guy coworker said your new nickname is portfolio papi nothing wrong with it lol it was a joke

BUT

a new girl joined the team and in a message my boyfriend said call me portfolio papi at all times to the girl and I was like why the hell was that even necessary to say dude. Like it was unprompted and he even said yeah that’s risky in the chat... he knew it was flirty and too far and when I got upset I was to blame .... he’s done this before in other ways and I’m always the crazy one.