Changing my mind set...

Hey ladies!!!! And gents :) here is my back story... We got pregnant last July ended up having a miscarriage in September.. we were going to start clomid this month when I finally got my BFP!

My question for all of you, how do you change your mindset so I'm not comparing this time to last time? I'm trying not too but I'm constantly going back and comparing everything!!

How have you all dealt with this? Any advice and guidance is greatly appreciated!

Also for all those still trying, keep your head up! It will happen for you too!!! I know it's hard to read stuff like this, trust me I was there!