Do you ever still think about abusive ex’s?

Question

I think I have OCD, but I’ll still look up my most recent ex (broke up over 3 years ago) who was super narcissistic, abusive and just plain crappy. 
I’m beyond happy in my relationship with the most amazing man in the universe so why does my brain even give one thought to what that old turd is up to?
Drives me batty! Anyone else do that?

Answer

We did time with them. They consumed every thought when we struggled to make them happy. We will occasionally think of them but if we play that tape all the way to the end we will remember why we are no longer with them!

Answer

Yeah sometimes. I'm still recovering from the abuse I think, but mostly recovered? 
He was a big part of my life and I loved him, despite him being a highly manipulative narcissist that tortured me for years. 
I think it's just complicated. I wish him well in therapy, he holds a place in my heart, but I don't wish to be with him anymore. 
I think it's normal to want to know how people are.

Do you ever still think about abusive ex’s?

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