Help I need advice


My boyfriend is struggling with his bills. His truck and house note is high. I told him not to buy high stuff he didn't listen... I try to help him best I can and lift him up. He's letting it bring him down and beats himself up daily. I'm like give it back then, then he's like it's gonna mess up my name. Idk what else to tell him. We have a son and a baby on the way. All I know is work hard and don't complain somebody got it worst than you. Other times I feel like he's a weak ass man, toughen up. You can't let life stress you. Idk maybe I come from a different breed