I’ve been talking to this guy I met and we want to be together but he doesn’t live where I do. And he’s also 37 years older than me (please no judgement!!) I’m 21 and he’s 58 . He makes me so happy but I can’t help but think what people would think but at the same time i don’t care I feel like if he makes me happy then it shouldn’t matter . Please anyone’s thoughts or advice on this?