Is it wrong to think that it’s my husband that has a low sperm count? It’s happened to me before with my first marriage. We tried for about a year and nothing.. come to find out he has a low Sperm count. I dint want to sound horrible but I know it’s not me. My ex (the guy I was dating between marriages) I had gotten pregnant twice with him unfortunately they both ended in a miscarriage but I was still able to get pregnant. But woth my husband now we have been trying for a while and nothing... it makes me nervous that he also has a low Sperm count. And I know he won’t get checked because he has said he has gotten someone pregnant before.( also a miscarriage) but I don’t know who much of that I believe because he never saw a test from her and this was back in high school I guess.