How to punish your 14 year old kid after getting caught snorting powdered candy at school to be “cool”?

My boyfriends brother made his friends believe it was coke and tried to encourage his other friends to do it also. The teacher alerted his mom and all she said was why did you do it. She actually went to my boyfriend and told him to punish him himself. Aren’t you the mom, why are you telling your other son to punish him. My boyfriend took his video games away, took his cellphone away and told him he could no longer go outside with his friends. It really makes me mad how she can’t do these parenting moments herself and she gets mad when her teenagers suck their teeth at her or ignore her when they’re told to clean their rooms.

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