Is my mother in law rude or am I crazy

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So I found out I’m pregnant about 2 weeks ago and my husband told his mom right away I really didn’t want him to but I figured what’s the harm ... boy was I wrong she then forced my husband and I to tell her daughter that I don’t really like no respect because she’s disrespected me one to many time for no reason and a lot of other stuff I won’t get into . And now she’s mad because we told my mother in law we don’t want her daughter knowing anything about the baby she’s not going to be a part of the baby life. My mother law doesn’t talk to me anymore she disrespects me and yells at both my husband and I in front of people saying we don’t help out and all we do is stress her out which is interlay false because we do so much for her as does our pay checks go to her but when we try to leave she gets upset and guilt trips my husband into staying. Am I just trippin or is it like she’s really rude ?