My story... I need advice
I'm 25 years old a single mom. I got with my boyfriend 5 years ago... It will be 6 years April 2nd 2015. When we got together my daughter was a month old. Our relationship was great the first 3 years. He has taken my daughter as his own and has raised her. Her real father is MIA! I love him but their are things that bother me. I have tried the whole talk but I don't where to go from here. Here's some back story... We lived with his parents for 3 years... I don't get along with his dad due to his excessive alcoholic ways. His mom and I are fine but I can't stand his sisters back then. Now I'm fine with them all but still sometimes I don't know. We use to have a great relation until we took a break for 5 months not my doing his. He ignored me for 5 months lied to me about the stupidest crap ever. I never understood how he could just ignore me and not speak to me and not even ask about the daughter he so called loves so much. We barely have sex maybe twice a month. We barely speak to each other now... He is inconserate when it comes to helping now. I always have so much on my plate and lately he's just super rude to me. I can't say anything without him having to prove me wrong or I'm not doing something right. He doesn't ever want to talk about issues or family problems or anything for that matter I always feel like I have to make him do something. And frankly I'm tired of it all. I have completely committed myself to him. He wants kids and says yes he wants to get married soon but he isn't willing to do the steps to make it happen. It's almost 6 years still no ring nothing. Now after all these years I question if he loves me. How could you sleep in bed with someone you love every night and not even touch them talk to them and just be completely in your own world. Everyone loves him my family loves him but he doesn't even make an effort to be in their lives either. He wasn't always like this. I do everything a wife would or should. I clean, cook every night, take care of our kid. But now I'm starting to notice he always calls for me when he doesn't want to deal with her. And it just seems like he doesn't even care about how she feels. I'm scared to give up not just because I don't want to be alone. But because that's the only father she has ever known. We have no sex life, communication... I mean wtf happen to the love. He remembers our birthdays anniversary but he doesn't try to even celebrate it let alone take me out. I have had thoughts that maybe he's cheating on me but Idk. Maybe I'm thinking that because my last partner which was my husband of 10 years left me and our daughter for another women 5 years ago... Maybe I'm just crazy but how do I fix this. I'm getting angry more and more everyday. I want my love back I want him back... I want what use to be. And I get people change! But why how do I fix this... I need advice from you ladies before I lose all hope in love and relationships. Like I said up and leaving could be the answer but honestly I have my daughter to think about too or maybe I'm just scared of her not having a father again. Help me out anyone!
Add Comment
Let's Glow!
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.