fiancé and i found out yesterday we’re having twins. it’s my second pregnancy. we already have an 18 month old. we’ve told most of the family so far and the reactions have all been super positive! except for my fiancé’s grandma. she never comes around to see our first child. she’s always told when shes over at his moms house and she just says “okay” and never shows up. she lives right down the road.

well today i found out she’s been telling people about the twins all day, and says she’s upset about it and she’s being nasty about it. i’m not sure why. my fiancé asked his mom and she said “i wouldn’t worry about her. she doesn’t come around to see your first baby so she probably won’t come see these two either”

so i asked my fiancé’s sister if their grandma has said anything about it to her. and her reply was

“she just says good luck”

idk why that makes me so mad but it does!!! like i feel like she (the grandma) is being sarcastic and nasty about it. i’m already stressing and nervous about having twins but she’s not making me feel any better. i shouldn’t even be worried about her because she doesn’t care about me, my fiancé, or our first baby. it just really makes me mad that she’s saying “good luck” like we’re incapable or like we are going to fail.