I've had 2 miscarriages. And the only thing that I ever hear or even read is.. "It just wasn't meant to be". No... It was meant to be.. What wasn't meant to be was all of the terrible mothers that do drugs, and ignore their children have children! And they're healthy, but what is health with a horrible life? Why couldn't I get my babies? And I can't even try again until I find out the cause of my recurrent miscarriages. It's been over 3 months since my last MC and I still cry everyday. I'm still so numb. And if one more person tells me "it was meant to be".. They will hear the wrath of me. All in all. Why should that annoying quote make me feel better about my poor baby that I DESERVED!