When you’re talking with your friend about trying to have a baby, when you don’t usually talk to anyone about it, and they say they feel bad about everyone always asking when you’ll have a baby and stuff like that. And you explain there’s nothing wrong with either of you and you’ve had tests and you have reasons for not wanting to do fertility treatments or anything and she says well at least you guys don’t have like a time limit or a plan on when you hope to have one. Like you haven’t been trying for almost 4 years and maybe you’ve already passed the time frame you were hoping to have your first kid...